Our new puppy arrived today. Well, not so much puppy as 18 month old.
Another wolfhound cross. With markings very similar to ginger. Slightly smaller in height and about the same weight.
Wolfieboy thinks he's beautiful and ginger not half as pretty. Yet I swear there's more wolfie in her face than there is in him.
He's
a sweetheart and well on the way to worming himself into my heart. I
still miss my big boofy fred, but at least there's more of a stop gap
now.
After all the palavar about naming, perhaps mainly
because I couldn't decide for good, wolfieboy helped me name him, and we
ended up with 'Larry.'
Perhaps not my first choice, and
definitely one that I'm not at all sure I'm comfortable about
incorporating into my family, but the name suits him. So, Larry it is,
and I'll just have to suck up the rest.
Larry came and met Ginger, and from the minute he arrived she was desperate to play with him.
They
seemed to get on just fine. Unfortunately the minute his foster dad
left, he pelted out the gate and chased him down. And no amount of
yelling brought him pack. For a few moments there, I thought it was all over
before it had even begun.
He had actually barrelled through
the bottom of the gate. I had been eyeing that little keyhole just that
morning but had decided it wasn't big enough to be an issue. In the face
of a determined wolfhound, I guess I was wrong.
And
then to make matters worse, Ginger then jumps into my veggie garden and
then shoves herself through the chicken wire. There is a ginger sized
hole there now. Grr.
I gave up after that and trudged
home to make a call to the foster people and prepare for the worst.
Luckily, he came pelting back just as i got to the door. What a relief.
Put
them on leads pronto and then decided we'd go for a walk to burn off
some energy. He was good in lead with a few false starts. But settled in
nicely. Wasn't fazed by much in spite of two wolfiepup tantrums and Ginger going AWOL halfway through when I decided to let her run on her
own for a bit.
I'd been warned that as a stray he would be skittish, but so far I have yet to see it. I guess they broke him in good. Lol
After the walk they played together in the yard. Their energy levels matched and he gave as good as he got.
But
they obviously need to get to know each other better, as they were
still arguing about being top dog when they were let inside.
Like Ginger, he struggled initially trying to figure out what was what. And
it took him a while to settle. Every time I got up to do something he
would get up to follow, and then that would rev up ginger, who then
would take it out on him. Voi..
Ginger was the same when she first arrived. Every time someone moved she would get up. Took a few days to her to relax enough to chill for good. But Fred was pretty indifferent to her and just lay around. Whereas this time around Ginger gets up when she does... Two big dogs trotting around, with wolfiepup in the middle trying to navigate. What a choatic mess!
Ginger was the same when she first arrived. Every time someone moved she would get up. Took a few days to her to relax enough to chill for good. But Fred was pretty indifferent to her and just lay around. Whereas this time around Ginger gets up when she does... Two big dogs trotting around, with wolfiepup in the middle trying to navigate. What a choatic mess!
He also tried to follow me into the bedrooms, but a few stern words sent him back into the common areas.
The
following reminds me of Fred. Fred used to follow me
everywhere too. Follow to the kitchen, follow to the
bathroom, follow to the door. Rinse and repeat.
Ginger is slightly put out. She
vascillitates between "I am a submissive dog" to a prim and proper
'sheesh. We don't do that kind of behaviour here.." and sits upright
watching as I give him cuddles.
I think she appreciates
having a buddy though. And I feel better about this decision than the
one I had getting her. Her interest in Larry puts it all into
perspective re how Fred was actually not that interested in Ginger when
she arrived. Perhaps he never really wanted another companion, and the push for the second was really me trying to fill up the hole that Elsie left behind. Or perhaps he just never really warmed up to her, or was already
too sick to pay her that much attention. I feel bad that his last four
months weren't spent in peace and quiet and solitude with his humans :(
Having
dogs in your life is a journey. You learn something new every time a
new one comes into your life. But by the time you have it all down pat, I
think it will be too late to do anything about it. You just have to
live in the moment and do the best you can at the time, armed with the
knowledge and instincts that you have. A bit like life, really...
What a sobering thought.
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